
I've been riding horses for a number of years now. I ride Rose(above) most of the time and the stable owner Gary would say about Rose, she's "bullet proof", not easily spooked, tame and easy to control. Gary also trained me each time I get on an animal, even though I may have ridden the same horse many times, to always start anew; whoa, left, right, back, etc... as if I've never been on the animal before. This is to assure the horse and yourself that you are both on the same track. Never assume anything. It's respect. There are few things as exhilarating as being on a 1200 pound horse(with a golf ball size brain) moving at a fast clip, and with a simple movement of the wrist, one can control these wonderful beasts.
I volunteer in a middle school teaching ESL. That same practiced patience while horseback to achieve an initial sense of control works wonders enabling students to understand their own responsibilities in the classroom. It works with clients and contractors too. So it was not much of a surprise when the NY Times had an article on "Becoming the Alpha Dog In Your Own Home", parents are taking the methods for inspiring animal discipline, order and devotion used by Cesar Millan, the Dog Whisperer, on their own children. Move over Dr. Spock...


